its not about how he sparkles, although it's pretty dang awesome, it's his love for her. That she becomes his world. That love, omg. I deserve that type of love.
I will get that love. <3.
Friday, January 15, 2010
I love boys who sparkle
sitting here watching Twilight with Marissa (her first time.. FINALLY) i am reminded how i want my own Edward, and how i do Deserve someone to love me that much.
its not about how he sparkles, although it's pretty dang awesome, it's his love for her. That she becomes his world. That love, omg. I deserve that type of love.
its not about how he sparkles, although it's pretty dang awesome, it's his love for her. That she becomes his world. That love, omg. I deserve that type of love.
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OK. So I read this and where do I begin really? You want your own Edward right? I read the Twilight series, I enjoyed the series as well - but it didn't give me unrealistic expectations of men or relationships and I am afraid that others didn't take the books and movies as I did. Love and relationships can not, I repeat, can not, be compared to fictional characters directed to a highschool demographic. There is a saying that I love - it goes "There's no such thing as a perfect soul mate. If you meet someone and you think they are perfect, you better run as fast as you can in the other direction. Because your soul mate is the person that pushes your buttons, pisses you off, and makes you face your shit."
ReplyDeleteI mean really. Twilight in terms of being a textbook on what you want for your love life isn't the most reasonable choice. Despite the whirlwind love of Edward and Bella, in real life a man cannot change merely because you want him to and set aside and sacrifice everything you are to devote yourself to their change.... and if a guy puts you in so much danger that you end of in the hospital making the excuse that you fell down a flight of stairs because you are a clumpsy silly girl, well that line works well with abused women all over the world... And if a boy leaves you, doesn't mean the boy is ever going to come back.
The point is, I am in a committed relationship - I love my boyfriend more and more everyday. We have a simple kind of life together, nothing freakishly dramatic or unhealthy. We fight, we make up, we spend a lot of evenings at home in front of the tv watching movies. We are hopelessly in love. I am not pushing him to get married constantly, we both know we want to eventually, but we are young, I am actually a bit older then you, and there is plenty of time for that. For the time being I just appreciate his company and we are dedicated in making our relationship even stronger.
I'm sorry to inform you that there is no Edward out there for you, but it doesn't mean you can't have an incredibly strong and passionate relationship with someone. But frankly you will never be a guy's ( a healthy guy anyways) only reason for living - you have to share that title with his mother, father, siblings, and your eventual children if it gets that far. I wouldn't want to just be my boyfriend's entire world and his only reason for living. A] that's foolish... B] it is just plain selfish.
True love exists, but not the way that the entertainment world portrays it. You are going to be very disappointed if you don't evaluate what you percieve as the type of love you want.